I noticed, sometimes, accusing others what I am doing, looking at them and saying some nasty things about them, all this I do while not aware of it, and then I am enraged by their real or perceived reaction.
Sakida, in the book linked below, says humans have reflecting power, they are able to reflect on what has just been completed, be it a thought or action; utilizing this power, I noted this annoying behavior of mine, while sleeping in public transportation: I opened my eyes after noting I said something unkind to someone in the bus, I did not do that verbally, but non-verbally. I have also noted the person was doing the same. We were negatively interacting.
In some cases, others may do it to you; the best way to respond to this is to focus in your work and ignore it.
Generally speaking, these kinds of interactions, just as interactions that take place within people, is of non-verbal nature, using tone and body movements to communicate.
Another way to deal wit these kinds of situations is to note them down and see what they are, by knowing this, you are likely to find solutions to them.
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